Saturday, June 27, 2020

Countless Memories Pop Up

 Copyright Photo by John Rezell
By John Rezell

I'm not sure if my neighbors were watching, but if they were, they saw a grown man cry.

Monday morning a single mother with three daughters hitched our longtime chariot of adventure to her truck and rolled away with the Starcraft pop-up camper that brought us to Oregon 15 years ago.

That summer of 2005 created so many memories that I wrote a book about it: You Cook a Dead Crab and Eat It. We lived in that 12-foot camper (A whopping 17 when folded out) for 85 days as we wandered through 8,000 miles in search of a place to call home,

But the adventures did not stop there.

Each summer we hitched up the trailer and explored the American West in good old fashion  family summer vacations.

For two weeks we would leave the world behind an immerse ourselves in nature. Yellowstone, Glacier, Zion, Grand Tetons, Mesa Verde, Arches, Lake Tahoe, Lassen, Crater Lake, Diamond Lake, Mount Rainier ... the list goes on and on and on.

Our summer road trips were so epic our daughters tagged along well into college. Year after year they would pepper me — sometimes as early as January — with the burning question: Where are we going this year?

Just a year ago on Memorial Day weekend, the four of us were together in the Starcraft for the last time, camping in the Columbia River Gorge. One daughter is a college grad, the other will be shortly.

The stories are endless, but one stands out for me as vindication that the lessons we hoped to impart on our daughters weren't lost.

Once we decided we would plant our roots in Eugene, Oregon we began to look for a place to live. We were downsizing significantly from our spacious home in Tennessee.

As we sat in the Starcraft pondering our next move, Debbie voiced concern that the house we were about to make our home might not be big enough for us.

My older daughter Sierra  swung her arms wide showing off the Starcraft and said, "Is it bigger than this? Because this is all we need."

Oh, the adventures won't end for Debbie and me. We have a new toy. Had to make sure we got one with enough room for the girls to pop in for a visit. Plans already in the making.

Sure, Progress is nice.

But memories are priceless.




Saturday, June 6, 2020

True Adventure Began 15 Years Ago

 Copyright Photo by John Rezell
By John Rezell

Strange how dates are aligning this year — that the 15th anniversary of our driving out of Strawberry Plains, Tennessee on the summer adventure of a lifetime would fall perfectly for a Saturday Morning Blog.

The year 2020 means 15 years ago we found Oregon.

As I've been posting, 20 years ago I enjoyed my final season covering bike racing.

Heck, 30 years ago I dove headfirst into cycling with my first coverage of the Redlands Classic.

If you haven't figured out I'm an old fart yet, I graduated college 40 years ago ...

Today, however, we celebrate the amazing journey chronicled in my memoir You Can't Cook a Dead Crab and Eat It.

It was 2005, and our daughters were finishing first and third grades. Debbie and I were married 14 years before we started a family. We got all the career ME stuff out of the way so we could focus on our family.

I hit the zenith of my journalism career in 2000, when the girls were toddlers. In 2005 they were coming of age. That is, they were hitting the age when they could watch their parents and see the example of how you live life.

We enjoyed a good, yet strangely unfulfilling life in Tennessee. So Debbie and I decided to quit our jobs, sell our house, pack what we couldn't sell in a month-long moving sale into storage, and embark on a quest to find our home for next 12 years until the girls finished high school.

Our motivation was quite simple. We wanted to show our daughters that you can make your life what you want it to be. If it isn't working out, embrace change. Take on adventure.

Today I'll just share one tidbit from the book:

As we rolled out, Taylor blew us away with the wisdom of life through the innocent eyes of a 6-year-old.

"We're like a baby chick, inside an egg, getting ready to hatch out of the shell," she says. "We don't know what the chick will look like. It's just starting."

We took a leap and landed with a big splash in Oregon, the girls hitting Dexter Lake in late August. Copyright Photo by John Rezell